It's the 24th of September, officially marking the end of my fifth week here in Senegal. Somehow, my feelings have shifted from oh-my-goodness-there-are-4-months-left to oh-wow-this-threefold-is-not-long. There has been a lot of going-ons in the previous month, and the coming weeks are going to be mundane in the sense of routine class-internship-homework schedule. Of course, I will be learning new things. But, I have gotten used to going out and seeing things that this seems like an abnormal turn in the past few months of venturing.
I just came back from a week-long rural visit, arranged by the program of course. There will be a separate post with pictures in it, but I feel like doing a detox/reflection post while the experience is fresh in the grey folds of my brain.
*flow of writing paused
here due to rapid callings of May, kai reer
(May, come eat dinner) where I had wonderful lamb curry couscous and carrot-cucumber
salad*
The purpose of the visit was part of culture immersion, and to get to
know more interior/authentic (not that Dakar is inauthentic in anyway) parts of
Senegal. I was paired up with another girl from my program to a peace corps
volunteer (PCV) site about 30km away from a town called Ndioum, which is about
a 6-7 hour drive away from Saint Louis. We were placed in Mbantou, with a small
population of around 500. Our PCV’s host family did not have running water nor
electricity, but that did not bother us as much as we thought it would.
The largest shock was
definitely way of life and culture. The use of “shock” here does not harbor any
underlying negative feelings towards the overall experience, but rather the
active realization of differences between experiences, expectations and reality
of elements we were exposed to. The community mainly speaks Pulaar, which is a
dialect of a long-standing ethnic group that migrated from East Africa and has
settled in many countries across the continent due to their farming/herding history.
Futa (?), which is what the Northern region of Senegal is known as, is home to
mostly conservative Muslim communities. From the short 6 days spent in the
region, I’ve come to realize how customs and traditions shape a culture and lifestyle. It's not like I've never been exposed to this idea before, but juxtaposing my norms with the very different norms of others put the context in my reality. We don't really control our identity, really.
Reading about feminism and patriarchal societies, classicism, and development is nothing new. To have observed and linked these theory/writings to reality was an awakening. Not speaking for the whole Senegalese society, or even the Futa region, but women are definitely central characters in families, but occupy an inferior position than men. I don't want to go into the whole essay-rant about ménage vs work vs importance vs power, but it seemed clear that in general, women are seen in a different light than men. One of the incidents that has etched itself in my mind was this wedding ceremony I attended in another PCV's village. She's a 16 year old girl who was in her second-to-last year of her baccalaureate studies, and he's a 24/25 year old removed cousin who is a student in Saint Louis. Theirs is an arranged marriage. The second day of their marriage, she moved to his village which is about a 13 hour drive East. She will not be coming back to her home in the near future, nor complete her studies, because her husband has refused to. I don't know her personally, or what autonomy she has in her life, but 16 year old me would never have to do that. It's this stark contrast between her life and mine that struck me. It's this absence of empowerment that upsets me. The conversation is more than this, and beyond me. Perhaps I will continue on this train of thought in a future post, because my mental and physical condition after my 12 hour travel today has left me pretty drained.
On another note, I am very thankful for calling Dakar home, and having Mam Fat Sow and her family who has accepted me with warmth and good food. The visitation has definitely put reality into perspectives, and I feel more grounded as a being. Being immersed in a Pulaar-speaking community with only Greg (our PCV) as our translator has been confusing. It has certainly given me a push in the "if only I could communicate in Wolof or French, however little knowledge I have of the two" direction. I now have a newfound appreciation for being able to learn them both.
So before I crash, I do not want to apologize for my rant, because these opinions are my own and I just want to put them somewhere. I also thank you for reading so far down in this post and sitting through my awkward syntax and proses. I will now proceed to take a refreshing shower (running water and a shower head!) and love my hair with some much-needed conditioning. Bed will definitely follow in suite. The next post will be short write up on a football match I attended in my first week. Toodles and much love!